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The Net-Out of a Book
Each month, we read a book together. The net-out is a one-page document where you summarize what stood out to you — the big ideas, key quotes, and life application. Think of it like casting a wide net over the book to catch what's worth keeping.
Why it matters
- For you: It becomes a resource you can return to for years. Reviewing your net-out should feel like reading the book again.
- For the group: Someone else may catch something you missed — and vice versa. Sharing your net-out helps everyone grow.
How to put one together
There's no single "right" way.
- Some guys write a short summary.
- Others list page numbers with a sentence or two about why that page mattered.
- Many use bullet points for key points, quotes, principles, and Scripture references.
- The net-out is mainly for you — do it in whatever way will be most helpful to you long-term.
A few things to keep in mind:
- You're letting the author mentor you. Read like you're sitting across from someone who knows the subject well.
- We're all in this together. Everyone puts in the work. Everyone benefits.
- Keep it to one page. The discipline of boiling it down is part of the value.
- Bring a copy for each man in the group. This way, everyone walks away with each other's insights — not just your own.
What a net-out looks like:
Here's a sample based on The Good and Beautiful Life by James Bryan Smith:
- Thesis: “We live at the mercy of our ideas and narratives.” I want happiness, but do I choose happiness. What is my mind focused on? Do I have the mind of Jesus? Do I choose gratitude?
- Happiness is conditional based on circumstances. Joy is our inner disposition, immune to external circumstances.
- The Good & Beautiful Life = Living “This Way of Life”
- Dallas Willard – Non-Discipleship: Costs us the abundant life Jesus promises us in John 10:10
- Jesus’ invitation to “Come – Follow Me” is a daily invitation. Days leads to months, Months leads to years, years leads to a good and beautiful life.
- Radical truth to remember and return to: I am loved by God, forgiven by God, and raised to a new life in Jesus.
- Three types of Anger: 1) Visceral: hits us immediately, 2) Meditative: grows over time (both fueled by unmet expectations and fear) and 3) Righteous: getting angry at things that anger God
- “I will not leave or forsake you” = God doesn’t lose sight of us; God give us space to experiment and grow but doesn’t intrude.
- Lust = Greek Epithumia = objectifying another person for one’s own gratification (it is a heart issue – responding to our feelings of emptiness)
- Why we lie: 1) fear of what will happen if we tell the truth, or 2) desire for personal gain
- Jesus says all our speech should be honest, genuine, true, and trustworthy: Col 3:19: “Do not lie…taken off your old self.” Eph 3:29: “Let no evil come out…so that our words may give grace.”
- Becoming “more than enough” people = moving from self-centeredness to generosity because there is no fear of coming out short.
- Kingdom Identity: I am the one in whom Christ Dwells. Kingdom Awareness: I am in the strong and secure Kingdom of God
- Worry is not the same as being cautious or careful. Worry is what we do after we have planned and prepared. Worry is a disproportionate level of concern based on an inappropriate measure of fear. Worry leads to anxiety – it is impossible to be anxious without being worried.
- Worry keeps me focused on my unlimited resources – trust keeps my attention on God’s abundant resources.
- “I am a child of God, in whom Christ dwells and I am living in the unshakable Kingdom of God.”
Books We’ll Read
- Community: Bo's Café: A Novel by John Lynch, Bill Thrall, and Bruce McNicol
- Identity: Becoming a King by Morgan Snyder
- Theology: The Good and Beautiful God by James Bryan Smith
- Grace: The Cure by John Lynch, Bill Thrall, and Bruce McNicol
- Prayer: A Praying Life by Paul E. Miller
- Godly Character: Louder Than Words by Andy Stanley
- Marriage: What Radical Husbands Do by Regi Campbell
- Sexual Integrity: Sex in a Broken World by Paul David Tripp
- Priorities: Ordering Your Private World, by Gordon MacDonald
- Finishing Strong: Finishing Strong by Steve Farrar











