OVERVIEW 👀
In this opening message of a six-week series through Colossians, Pastor Paul Durbin walks us through the first 14 verses of Paul's letter and asks a simple but powerful question: how does God's work keep growing in us after we've believed? Drawing from Paul's prayer for the Colossian church, Paul highlights five growth areas the Holy Spirit wants to develop in every follower of Jesus—clarity, strength, gratitude, awareness, and prayerfulness. With warmth, humor, and practical insight, Paul reminds us that spiritual maturity isn't about hard things going away; it's about being rooted deeply enough in Christ to bear more and more fruit, no matter the season.

164 | How Does God Keep Growing You After You Believe?
In this opening message of a six-week series through Colossians, Pastor Paul Durbin walks us through the first 14 verses of Paul's letter and asks a simple but powerful question: how does God's work keep growing in us after we've believed? Drawing from Paul's prayer for the Colossian church, Paul highlights five growth areas the Holy Spirit wants to develop in every follower of Jesus—clarity, strength, gratitude, awareness, and prayerfulness. With warmth, humor, and practical insight, Paul reminds us that spiritual maturity isn't about hard things going away; it's about being rooted deeply enough in Christ to bear more and more fruit, no matter the season.
TIPS 📌
- For the greatest impact, invite a few others to go through this study guide with you.
- You don't need to do every section and question—use what fits your group or season.
- Let the Spirit highlight where to slow down and engage.
ICEBREAKER(S) 🧊
If you had to compete in curling, pickleball, or ultimate frisbee for a championship, which would you pick and why?
BIBLE PASSAGE(S) 📖
Colossians 1:1–14 (NIV) 1 Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother, 2 To God’s holy people in Colossae, the faithful brothers and sisters in Christ: Grace and peace to you from God our Father. 3 We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, 4 because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all God’s people—5 the faith and love that spring from the hope stored up for you in heaven and about which you have already heard in the true message of the gospel 6 that has come to you. In the same way, the gospel is bearing fruit and growing throughout the whole world—just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and truly understood God’s grace. 7 You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, 8 and who also told us of your love in the Spirit. 9 For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, 10 so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, 11 being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, 12 and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light. 13 For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
OBSERVATION 🔎
- What does Paul specifically thank God for when he prays for the Colossians, and what does that reveal about what mattered most to him?
- In verses 9-12, what are the specific things Paul asks God to do in the lives of these believers?
- According to verses 13-14, what has God already done for those who are in Christ? List as many actions as you can find.
APPLICATION 👋
- Where in your life right now are you most needing clarity from God? Paul prays that we'd be "filled with the knowledge of His will." Think about a decision, relationship, or season where you're unsure of what God wants—what would it look like to actively seek His will rather than passively wait?
- What's a hard thing from a few years ago that doesn't level you the way it used to? Spiritual maturity doesn't mean hard things stop hurting—it means they stop having the same power to destroy us. Consider how God has already grown your strength and endurance.
- When you scan your conversations from the past week, which won out—gratitude or complaining? Our culture trains us to complain and call it feedback. Be honest with yourself about the tone of your everyday talk.
- What's one specific thing Jesus has "buried" in your life that you sometimes still try to dig back up?Brokenness, unforgiveness, shame, idolatry—Paul says these things go into the grave with Christ. Sometimes we keep revisiting what God has already put to rest.
- Do you tend to think of yourself more as a sinner or as a saint? Paul never addresses believers as sinners—he calls them saints with growing to do. Our self-identity shapes how we live.
- Who are you currently praying for regularly, and who might God be nudging you to add to that list? Paul models growth in prayerfulness by simply praying these very things for people he had never even met.
- What's one practice you could put in place this week to grow in one of these five areas (clarity, strength, gratitude, awareness, prayerfulness)? Growth isn't passive. Pick one and get specific.
LIVE ON BELAY 🏔️
- Start a simple gratitude rhythm this week—text one person each day something specific you're thankful for about them.
- Pick three people (a neighbor, a co-worker, a Belay'er) and pray Colossians 1:9-12 over them by name every day this week.
- Catch yourself mid-complaint at least once and turn it into a thank-you out loud, even if it feels awkward.
- Take a 20-minute walk with no phone and ask God for clarity on one specific decision you're facing.
- Reach out to someone who is in a hard season and remind them that what once leveled them won't level them forever—offer to pray with them.
PRAYER 🙏
- Lord, fill me with the knowledge of Your will—give me clarity for the decisions in front of me.
- Father, strengthen me with Your power so I can endure with patience whatever this week brings.
- Jesus, replace my complaining heart with a grateful one—catch me when I drift.
- Holy Spirit, help me see clearly what's been buried at the cross and what's been raised to new life in me.
- Lord, grow me in prayerfulness for the people around me, especially those who don't yet know You.
WORSHIP 🙌
OUTLINE 📝
Main Idea: God's work in us doesn't stop at belief—He keeps growing us in five key areas.
1) Growing in Clarity
- Knowing God's will for our life
- Asking, reading, yielding
2) Growing in Strength, Power, and Endurance
- Hard things still happen—but they don't destroy us the same way
- Spiritual maturity carries weight that used to crush us
3) Growing in Gratitude
- A complaining tongue reveals an ungrateful heart
- Contentment in every circumstance through Christ's strength
4) Growing in Awareness
- What's been buried with Christ: brokenness, unforgiveness, sin's reign, idolatry, shame, deception
- What's been raised in Christ: relationship, inheritance, sainthood, embarking on mission
5) Growing in Prayerfulness
- Paul models it by praying these very things for people he'd never met
- Mature faith prays these growth areas over others
Takeaway: Keep growing—by God's grace, in His power, for His glory.








