OVERVIEW 👀
In this closing message of the Life Under the Sun series, Pastor Paul Durbin walks us through Ecclesiastes 11-12 and unpacks Solomon's four final words of wisdom: just ship it, invest early, savor the poetry, and fear God. With honesty, humor, and real-life stories, Paul reminds us that God has placed something unique in each of us that the world needs, that saying yes to Jesus early changes everything, that growing older is a gift worth embracing, and that a healthy reverence for God quiets every other fear. It's a call to stop waiting for perfect conditions and start living fully alive to the One who made us.
TIPS 📌
- For the greatest impact, invite a few others to go through this study guide with you.
- You don't need to do every section and question—use what fits your group or season.
- Let the Spirit highlight where to slow down and engage.
ICEBREAKER(S) 🧊
If you could go back and give your 20-year-old self one piece of financial or life advice, what would it be?
BIBLE PASSAGE(S) 📖
OBSERVATION 🔎
- In Ecclesiastes 11:1-6, what repeated themes or images does Solomon use to describe stepping out in faith despite uncertainty?
- In Ecclesiastes 12:1-7, what poetic images does Solomon use to describe aging, and what do they communicate about how he views growing older?
- How does Solomon's conclusion in Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 tie together everything he has been teaching throughout the book?
APPLICATION 👋
- What is something God has placed in you that you've been holding back from "shipping"? Paul shared how a professor once told him he didn't have what it takes, but he went anyway. Think about a time when you let someone else's doubt hold you back from stepping out in faith.
- Where in your life are you "watching the wind" or "looking at the clouds"—waiting for perfect conditions before you obey God? Solomon says those who wait for ideal circumstances will never plant and never reap. Consider what "perfect conditions" you might be waiting on.
- If the days of your life are currency, how are you currently spending them? Paul reminded us that time is one of the most valuable things God has given us. Reflect on whether your calendar matches what you say you value most.
- What does it look like for you, in this season, to "invest early" in Jesus rather than later? Whether you're 18 or 68, "early" simply means now. Think about one surrender you've been postponing.
- How do you honestly feel about growing older, and how might God be inviting you to "savor the poetry" of this stage of life? Our culture often pushes us to fight aging rather than embrace it. Consider what it would look like to receive it as a gift instead.
- What would change in your daily life if your fear of God truly dwarfed every other fear you carry? Paul described the fear of God as deep reverence that aligns our life with His Word. Think about a specific fear that loses its grip when God gets bigger.
- Are you looking to Jesus for salvation, or are you quietly gambling that you'll figure it out later? Paul closed with a direct invitation to put our trust in Christ now, not someday. This is a chance to answer that question honestly.
LIVE ON BELAY 🏔️
- Take one concrete step this week toward the dream or calling God has put in you—send the email, make the call, start the project, write the first page.
- Sit down with your calendar and bank account and ask, "Am I investing my days and dollars in things that matter for eternity?" Make one adjustment.
- Reach out to an older Belay'er this week and ask them to share a story or lesson from their walk with Jesus—then thank them for it.
- Share a piece of wisdom or encouragement God has given you with someone younger who could use it.
- Invite someone who doesn't yet know Jesus to coffee, a meal, or a Sunday at Belay—don't wait for the perfect moment.
PRAYER 🙏
- Lord, give me the courage to step out in faith and "ship" what You've placed in me.
- Jesus, help me invest my life—my time, energy, and resources—into Your kingdom instead of my own.
- Father, teach me to embrace the season of life I'm in and savor the gift of each day.
- God, grow in me a healthy fear of You that quiets every other fear.
- Jesus, I put my trust in You today—be my Savior, my King, and my rescue.
OUTLINE 📝
Main Idea:
Solomon's final words of wisdom call us to step out in faith, surrender our life to Jesus early, embrace the gift of aging, and walk in a reverent fear of God.
Just Ship It (Ecclesiastes 11:1-6)
- You are a one-of-a-kind result of God's creativity, and He's placed things in you that the world needs.
- Les Brown quote about the graveyard being the richest place on earth—full of unshipped dreams.
- Paul and Patty's story: van-life ministry after Bible college, moving to China with four kids, planting Belay in Boulder.
- "Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap."
- Stop waiting for perfect conditions—plant the seed, trust God, try again if you fall.
Invest Early (Ecclesiastes 11:7-10, Luke 9:23-25)
- The compound interest illustration: the investor who starts at 25 ends up with more than the one who starts at 35, even investing less.
- The days of your life are currency—invest them in what lasts.
- Jesus: whoever loses their life for His sake will save it.
- Say yes to Jesus now, not "right before you die."
- Enjoy your youth, but know there's a payoff for every investment you make.
Savor the Poetry (Ecclesiastes 12:1-8, Proverbs 16:31)
- Solomon writes three verses to the young and eight poetic verses to the old—he's tender with aging.
- Paul's story of seeing the back of his balding head on the big screen in Beijing.
- The poetic imagery of aging: trembling hands, dim eyes, fading hearing, fear of heights.
- Gray hair is a crown of glory—don't fight it, embrace it, share your wisdom.
- Not everyone gets to grow old; it's a gift.
Fear God (Ecclesiastes 12:9-14, Hebrews 9:27-28)
- Paul's hamper jump-scare story—that's not the fear of God.
- The fear of God is deep reverence that aligns our life with His Word and His ways.
- A fear of God dwarfs every other fear—opinions, risk, the world.
- Solomon's final word points to a coming day of judgment.
- The answer to judgment: Jesus, sacrificed once, returning for those who are waiting for Him.
Takeaway:
Don't gamble your life—ship what God has put in you, invest early in Jesus, savor the season you're in, and let a reverent fear of God lead you home.
















